Domestic violence is a devastating social problem that impacts all segments of society and can have a profound impact on children. Home should be a safe place. For too many children, home is a place of violent conflict. Sometimes children get caught up in the violence and are physically harmed. Other times, children are emotionally scarred by witnessing domestic violence.
Often, people think that children are safe if the violence in the home is not directed at them or they think children do not even know it is happening if it occurs after they are in bed. Neither of these assumptions is true.
Research indicates that exposure to family violence can have long-term consequences. Children exposed to domestic violence are at increased risk of exposure to traumatic events, such as the injury – or even death – of a parent. These children are also at higher risk of abuse and neglect than children who are not.
Domestic violence as well as other stressors can affect a child’s health through adulthood.
ACE, or the Adverse Childhood Experience study, is an ongoing collaborative effort between Kaiser Permanente and the CDC looking at childhood stressors and their effects on health and well-being. The ACE study included 17,000 adults who completed comprehensive questionnaires detailing their childhood experiences and current health status. Particular focus was placed on adverse childhood experiences, which were defined as: emotional, sexual, and/or physical child abuse; parental abuse; parental divorce; child neglect; or a parent suffering from drug/alcohol addiction or an untreated mental disorder.
The study found that children who experienced adverse life events were more likely to experience health issues as an adult, including liver disease, COPD, cancer, heart disease, and even early death. The study also linked adverse childhood experiences to undesirable/unhealthy behaviors, such as early or unwanted pregnancy, smoking, drug use, sexually transmitted disease, and domestic violence. Interestingly, the number of adverse childhood experiences (deemed one’s “ACE score”) directly correlated to an increased risk of poor health as an adult.
Currently being replicated in other countries, the study has been important in showing that adverse childhood experiences are not only common, but also tend to cluster together. These early life stressors have a clear implication on our future health as a nation, and the need for early intervention remains pressing. For further information, visit: the CDC's page on Adverse Childhood Experiences.
The extent of the effects of domestic violence on children may be reduced. With early intervention, the destructive pattern of domestic violence can be broken. Teachers, doctors, clergy and other helping professionals must be aware of the signs of abuse and be prepared to help children overcome the trauma of abuse, encouraging them to live happy, healthy, violence-free lives.